In 1994 Robert Zemeckis directed super star actor Tom Hanks
in a movie called Forest Gump. The movie itself is a tale of love, loss and
overcoming while defying the odds. The story chronicles the life of a young man
who was seemingly at a disadvantage from by physical and maybe even mental challenges;
the story is filled with quotes that seem to be so true about life.
One of the most famous lines from the movie was one where Forest
pointed out to a stranger “Momma always said life was like a box of chocolates,
you never know what you’re gonna get!” Well Forest that is true in so many
ways. I would motion to say that if life is like a box of chocolates then you
are blessed because there are times when life is just not that sweet, but
rather a bitter pill to swallow. It is true you never know what you’re going to
get!
When life for you has been met with opposition and difficult
times know that it is ok. If you are hurt disappointed, angry, depressed or
feeling like you have really messed up know that it is all a part of the
process. Often times we hold feelings inside or feel a sense of guilt attached
to our feelings. You are allowed to feel the way you feel about whatever is
going on in your life, but don’t get stuck there!! Own your feelings assess the
situation and try to grow from your experiences and move forward.
Sometimes life isn’t all sunshine and roses but down fret!
Hard times are often the precursor to better times and advancement. Be gentle
with yourself you are doing the best you can. At the time you may not have accomplished
everything you set out to do, you may not have the house, the car, or the
spouse you want, but if you take a look back over where you’ve been and what
you have already accomplished you will see that you have so much to be thankful
for. Stay the Course! The Best is yet to come!!
